Hi all....I have recently entered a relationship quick and hard..as usuall. I met my girlfriend about a year ago through a friend and felt an instant connection. We were both dating at the time so nothing was persued. Aug i found that we were both single agian and i asked her out, things went well, we fell in love...or so it seemed, moved in together a month later. It is now Nov and the relationship isnt going where we thought it would. My Question is..Can a codependant relationship be saved?? I am wise enough too see that I mayhave enterd this relationship for the wrong reasons. We brought eachother comfort and caring in a time of need for both of us. Is that a wrong reason?? I have been taught that the only way too a succesfull realtionship is two healthy people entering into a relationship for the purpose of love and self evolvment. She noticed early on my attachment too her and is doing her best to not feed that, which i applaude, but as you can imagine is leaving me feeling empty and alone. I hate feling like this, She is a terrifric women, truley a one of a kind..It would truley break my heart too know i cant be with her because I am incapable of loving freely....Can it be saved!!??
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