Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Im going thourgh a tough time! where i feel like doing nothing. my b/f came to c me this morning, well 1pm. wasnt expecting him! he said its best if its over! which is wot ive been saying for ages. he went out last night and said he met someone! he said she wanted to come back to his, but he said no! he said he felt a connection with this girl! i even more hurt. Actually i dont want to live, i cant take any more pain. I love him, but im sad about how hes treated me. i just totally alone, isolated, feel like no one is there for me, my house is a mess! ive got money problem, i dont feel ok. i dont know how to get better or is there any point in getting better. i jsut want to cry.
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Pain is a part of the growing process ... I hate to sound cliche, but really, It sounds like you will be better off without him. There are nice men out there
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Hey pamela-I know how you feel, I've been there. Please don't give up on you. Land, he doesn't deserve you or the time you've invested in him. Isolation is one step from going out that door and finding new friends. Loving him is letting him go and being the ass that he truly is, while you continue to love yourself, whom deserves so much better. I know it's hard but try to look at him as dust on your sandles. Shake it off and walk on babe!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
