I guess I'm just really venting here. My ex-husband and I agreed to stay friends through our divorce, which we've done. I see the choices he makes and somehow I think I 'know' they are bad for him. It makes me so angry. I know how codependent this sounds, I feel I need to break off our contact for good. Our relationship just isn't healthy for me. It hurts a lot, I hate to lose him completely, but I know that hanging on is just me holding out because of my codependency and how much it centers on him. I'm really not asking for advice here, just support if someone that understands can give it. I know I'm strong, I'm just not sure I can totally do this without some backing. =)
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