Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
I have a question and wanted to know if anyone here can contribute to a better understanding.
My understanding of boundaries starts with knowing what I'm responsible to and for....Taking responsibility for one's own life is where I think most co-dependents are first lost in, then getting enmeshed in other ppl's responsibilities?
So here's a little list if you can add to it, please do, I would greatly appreciate it.
I'm responsible to:
my commitments
my dreams
what I chose to share
I'm responsible for:
my knowlegde and awareness
my thinking
my behavior
My understanding of boundaries starts with knowing what I'm responsible to and for....Taking responsibility for one's own life is where I think most co-dependents are first lost in, then getting enmeshed in other ppl's responsibilities?
So here's a little list if you can add to it, please do, I would greatly appreciate it.
I'm responsible to:
my commitments
my dreams
what I chose to share
I'm responsible for:
my knowlegde and awareness
my thinking
my behavior
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
my own happiness
my financial affairs
my personal appearance
You are responsible for your own feelings...
Everything starts with a thought. If I think, "Oh that is too hard, or I think I'll never be happy until..."
It's the thoughts that produce the feelings in my understanding. Thankfully there's been some really good stuff written about "fickle feelings" and how easily they can change. I don't want to be run by my emotions or feelings. The way I think is most important. Often asked why do we suppose it's was written, "Take captive all thoughts......" Thanks for the supportive input as always this place is awesome.
recovery program
conferring with my Higher Power on all matters
responsible for:
my children
(along with all the other stuff everyone mentioned)