I could really use some expierence here. I'm a recovering codependent and I'm married to a recovering person. We both bring our own stuff to the marriage. I snoop and have a hard time minding my business. He lies and acts out in other ways. On several occasions I've checked our internet history to find that he has been to sites that I'm not ok with. Also, I found some movies that he had and when I confronted him about it he lied. Here is the part where I'm stuck. I know as one human to another, what he is doing is none of my business. But as his wife, isn't it my business when he's looking at porn? Please any help here would be greatly appreciated.
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