Hello. I have just joined this community. Does codependency mean you rely on other people for happiness? It may sound daft but I feel I have an addiction for emotional pain and keep going back to be hurt again and again. Even though I haven't seen my other half past few days I still am constantly thinking about how scared and desperate I would feel without him. Its like I would have lost a leg but he obviously doesn't feel that about me. Any tips on how to detach from these sort of people and stop feeling the need to live just so others will love me.
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