I have been with same man for 5 years now... I keep asking for marriage... He keeps avoiding commitment?! I get various excuses but not always the same?! I latley wonder if I have grown co dependent on him... should I continue this relationship knowing I am un happy with our progress as far as a marital state? He has been essentially living with me for the past 2 years now which makes it more difficult... the old adage... why buy the cow when the milk is free?!.... He owns his own home rents it out to 2 individuals. has 2 mortgages and the home is falling apart... he has no time to commit to it either.. I offered to sell mine to work on his... but it is like a hand holding up a wall. offering so many excuses with no commitment or plan?! He offers me nothing in the way of financial support with regards to my home due to his having his own responsibilities / bills / obligations. He continually states he wants to sell his home... but does not... this mostly due to because he states it needing work... however he never has time to work on it... It's a new year... clearly... I do not want to go thru another in the same fasion, I am very frustrated and cannot seem to get through... when I bring it up... I am accused of being a pessimist... or worse... God is speaking to me more and more these days as well... I know I am doing wrong and I know I to have to listen... I need help / strength?!... I love him so much... However I am feeling I am being pushed to limits with no answers from him for our future?!... How many subtle hints does it take? Or... am I just really stupid in llowing this relationship to continue?!
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