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does anyone else have fear of abandonment??...that in results the codependency in us????
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I am nervous to cry in front of other people including my therapist because I can’t anticipate how he will react. Most of my life I was either beaten or teased for crying and during some of the worst of it I was told not to cry. My therapist asked me how I would want him to respond and I had no words. Maybe just a gentle reply that it was ok? Any positive therapy responses to crying?...
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It's so hard to move on from multiple traumas since childhood onward. I was forced to grow up without a family bc they abused me so bad. I was treated like I didn't exist when I wasn't being abused. It has effected me and my life in every way possible. I haven't been able to have anything that resembles a normal life bc of this despite years of therapies and medicines plus self help practices. My...
But I did still get that fear of intimacy that comes from abandonment, link below;
http://joy2meu.com/Fear_of_Intimacy.html
It is not that I fear abandonment but that I seem to be at ease in always expecting to be abandoned and rejected.
I have been married twice and a few long term shack-up relationships so intimacy some how means more then intercourse or love.