
Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
i felt that if i didn't please (fix, take care of, whatever) that i wouldn't be loved.
my first husband made fun of me in front of my sons... now my sons think its perfectly acceptable to poke fun at mom and see how angry she can get..
they joke about who is the one who pissed off mom the most..
i'm getting mad talking about this now! haha ok ok deep breath, calm down, callllllllm dowwwwwn......
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On the positive side, I now go home, go to the Net, and write Emails to any Company that miffs me off. If the email doesn't work, I send them a direct letter. I don't mind spending the 38 cents to vent! I have fewer Rage Attacks since I've been aware of my dysfunctional behavior but they can still happen. I really do guard myself against them, by being conscience of my anger. I will walk out of a store, rather than have a scene, and I end up looking totally ridiculous and pathetic.