I recently found my high school boyfriend on facebook and over the course of roughly 5 months rekindled our relationship. We met in 1979 when his family moved from maine to Ky and were together for roughly 6 years. He went into the navy and upon his return the two of moved to Maine. It did not work out ,we were very young, but i stayed in Maine. When I saw that he was living just 30 minutes away and has single on his status I reached out but it turned out that he was living in Ky and going thru a rough patch. He was living with his sister, has three sons and unemployed. He had been in Maine in the past three years been when he became unemployed he decided to go back to ky to search for work and be near his sons. After talking with him via phone and internet I received a call from a woman in Maine asking me what my relationship to this man was because she had my phone number on her cell phone bill. She told me that she was the reason that this man had left his wife. I did not find that impressive. She sounded proud. She told me that he was only suppose to be gone for two weeks but it has been two months. When I confronted him on this he told me that he had terminated the relationship with her and was working on getting his on phone service. Then after a few more months of talking he tells me that he has been searching for work on the internet back up here and has three interviews set up and could he please come here to stay with me while looking. His exwife is also taking him to court for failure to pay child support and the date is on Sept 1 st. he is frightened of jail. We also spoke diligently about marraige. He told me how happy he was to have me back in his life and did I know how much he loves me. blah blah blah. Well he is here for one week when he makes up this horrible lie about my son stealing and that he can be comfortable here and is going to his mothers house to sort out his thoughts. In the meantime he had received a few calls about job interviews so I call him and a woman answers his phone. Its the woman that he left his wife for then I start getting very mean texts messages about How he does not love me, never did. That I am a loser. I also know that this woman (predator) has money. she is ten years older than I and looks like she has been riden hard and put out wet. Ouch to my ego. I had made it clear to him that even I did have the means to help him with his child support obligations that I would not but that I love him and believe in him. I see now that that isnt enuf for him. I am hurting soooo bad over this. More so over the way he did it. He hasnt spoken to me but texted me because he realized that some very important court papers would be coming to my mailbox and they have and he had the nerve to ask me to put them outside of my house and he would pick them up. Im sure that she would be with him. I sent them back undeliverable. I know what im suppose to do but I am in such pain. I cant eat or sleep. one minute I want him to die a slow and painful death and the next i want him to come back. How sick is this? Please Comments?
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