Hello My name is Phillip I am 31 years old. I have dealt with codependency for years. Only now have I finally decided to address it. I am tired of the failed relationships and the need to obsess over ones that I am in. I want my life back. Right now I am dealing once again with all habits and destructive patterns in a relationship. Now though the relationship I find myself in is one with someone I do truly care about and have become best friends with. As with prior relationships I have found myself in, she is going through a very painful and hard transition in her life. (Divorce). And the strain of dealing with that has caused more than enough stress on the relationship. The fear of loosing one of the best friends I have had in my life above all scares me. I just hope to find balance in letter her deal with she needs to her in her life as well as what I need to in mine. I pray to God that I can find balance and be that friends she needs as well.
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