Everyone here has been so helpful in so many ways so I am asking for some advise, different perspectives on a decision I need to make. Here is just a brief history of my situation. I have been dating this guy for about 3 years. He currently lives with me. He pays absolutely nothing toward anything. I have never asked him for anything because I know he doesn't make much and that is not really the issue. I pay for everything when we go out somewhere, bought his families christmas gift, birthdays etc. He will sometimes do things to help out, i.e., cut the grass, take out the trash etc. We get along, don't argue very often, usually only when I voice my dislike at something. We do not have a physical relationship even though we do sleep in the same bed and are close in other ways. He has done several things in the past, lied to me about where he is, doesn't tell me where he is etc. I don't think there is another woman involved at this point but think if he could find someone else he would. I don't trust him due to his previous lies and the fact that I know he won't tell me things because he thinks I will get mad. I hate being so suspicious all the time, it just eats away at my soul. I am to the point that I just want to be out of the relationship since he doesn't really have anything to offer me anyway! My family and friend say I should get out of it since I am the one giving 150% and he just continually takes and doesn't give anything back or the very minimum! I don't know why I worry about it so much and why it's such a hard decision to make. I can make major decisions on either of my jobs (I have two) but when it comes to relationships I am just wishy washy!! That's is one of the things that bothers me is while I am working two jobs to try and take care of myself and help him out he sits in my comfortable home watching television, I come home from my second job late at night and he wants me to make him somthing to eat and say's well your going to eat aren't you? I have given up having any expectations in this relationship because I only get disappointed all the time!! I just want to scream!! I am sorry, I said I would make this brief!! Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks!!
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