My boyfriend was sober when we met. But, for the past 2 years he has had an increasing addiction to coke. From and addicts point of view, how should I be reacting.I guess I'm asking,how do you want a loved one to support you. I've tried understanding,patience,tough love.I feel like I've tried everything and he is still using like 3 times a week. He used to go to meetings and doesn't want to go back.I feel like I am just at my breaking point.He says he want to quit.He's even flushed it down the toilett in front of me acouple of times. I do believe he wants to quit.But, at the same time he's not making the changes he knows, he needs to make, i.e. friends and places. I just need some outside advice.What do you think I should do?
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