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no dancing for me today

penny59
penny59
ok so no dancing for me today i am just hoping to get some walking in.just around the house.i have company coming and i feel like shit.so i decided the fat lady is now singing .this is my last gathering at my house.i cant do it anymore.i love entertaining but this is the end of the road for me....i hate pain.
ZAZAS
ZAZAS
hope you enjoy your company
deleted_user
deleted_user
Bless your heart. I know what you mean. I can't remember exactly WHEN it was that I quit having gatherings at my house but it was for the same reason. Hope you get thru it without too much pain.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There is no reason to stop entertaining. Make it intimate pot lucks for say six friends max. Your friends love you and want your company, they will help cook and take home their dishes too.

You could always BBQ, and use paper plates, say for the same six. Relaxing times and informal get togethers are possible.

Take it slow, and ask for help from your friends if you need it. Pride hurts

Doug/Ouch
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok, so no John Travolta "Sat night fever" for you, eh?
Enjoy your company, and the time after they are gone and you can relax......
Take care,
Mary
deleted_user
deleted_user
no no no - you don't want to lose touch with people! we need to get this pain under control - this flair ( I hope its a flair) needs to GO!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok, we've all had our days when it seems enough is enough I can't do this no more. I did that when I left my job. I'm not much of an entertainer, because I've never been into housework, even before the pain. But don't just totally give up what you love. I have to admit I haven't danced much lately, but occassionally I just have to turn on the music and move a little. Like Doug said just adjusted the size a bit or ask for some help, which is one of the hardest things for me to do. But don't give up being the life of the party, just take it down a notch or two.
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