My mum is in hospital cuz she broke er back also she ad an operation yesterday for a lump in er boob prior to that we fought she would be fine cuz she wuz in da rite place cut to da chase, da doc told us mum would be in da operatin theatre for about an hour maybe a little more! mum went down da theatre at just after 7Am i went to visit yesterday cuz i wuz told she,d be back by then well the doc,s ad er down da theatre for most of da day,mum as chronic severe pain due to many problem,s wiv er back n er shoulder as well as other prob,s i didn,t get to see mum until just after 8.15pm n da doc promised me n my nan that e would come n see mum straight after da op e didn,t come up wiv anyfink,wen we asked where e wuz da nurse told us she,d ring im n find out where e wuz well it turned out e ad gone home! n he told da nurse e ad no intention of comin back n we,d av to wait til today,my nan wuz fumin n i wuz ready to punch im! finally today e came n told us mum actually ad more lump,s n e ad more problems wiv er cuz she,s on morphine 24/7 da painkiiers wern,t workin,so they got da pain doc in n e,s put er on somefing stronger,da doc told us yesterday mum would be down theatre for roughly an hour or mayb a little longer as he fought mum just ad a few cysts,i demanded to know why my mum wuz down da theatre for so long, e told us cuz some of da lumps were pretty hard to get out i told im surely you shuld av told us if there wuz a prob why didn,t you send someone down to tell us you,d be alot longer,you didn,t n i av ardly slept cuz i,m goin outta my head wonderin what wuz goin on wiv my mum n wen we spoke yesterday you told us you would come n tell us wot wuz goin on after you ad finished but you didn,t! why can,t someone be honest wiv us e told me n nan i wuz tired n needed to go to home that wuz it i wuz ready to punch im but wot good would that av done so my nan asked im to be honest n tell us wot wuz goin on cuz e told us yesterday that e would tell us last nite,it turn,s out mum,s lumps wern,t cysts n we now av to wait between 24/48hrs til we know wot is wrong my mum is in pain 24/7 n she as to take morphine every day to help er pain why can,t someone help wiv er pain da pain doc came up tonite n e,s changed mum,s medication n it,s knockin er out why can,t someone help mum? it,s been along time since i saw my mum wuz in so much pain like this why can,t they tell us da results of da op why did e tell us they were cyst,s n now they,ve ad to send da lumps they,ve removed to another hospital,could this be more cancer? cuz da doc told us she,ll only be down about an hour she wuz down da theatre for most of da day surely they,d know wot wuz wrong wiv er wouldn,t they?
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