Remember to celebrate her life, and not mourn her loss. Also put together some memories of her for her children.

Ouch

I'm sorry to hear about your friend. That is just awful. I agree with Ouch...celebrate her life. She in no longer in pain anymore. But I know her friends and family are. There are other communities here that might help you as well. There is a bereavment community for people that have lost loved ones. I'm sure you will get lots of advice there as well. I hope you feel better soon. Take it day by day. Time heals all.

Jessica

Sorry to hear that. marilyn

how sad for you and her family, Ouch has a good idea, make something with memories of her for the children they will treasure that for the rest of their lives, even when they get to the point of being mad at her for taking her own life, and leaving them. I wish you and her family all the best in this trying time and
lots of hugs
Morgaine

Sorry for your loss too.Tragic with the three children left behind.Time will help heal.

oh tonyia im so sorry for your loss.those poor children.you can help her now by looking out for them,and helping them come to terms with the loss of their mother.it wont be easy ,for any of you.just know there are alot of friends hhere who you can talk to if it helps.also maybe talking to your dr who can refer you to a counsellor may help too.my thoughts are with you and her family.with love.sharon.x

so very sorry to hear about your friend, that's horrible. Hang in there.
Blue22

Sorry to hear that you lost your friend like that. I hope that you are able to be there to help the children and support her family.
Take care and try and remember the good times.

Just wanted to say thanks to those who replied.It's nice to know that im not alone.I will use your ideas.

i am so sorry for your loss .i know what you are going through .i will keep you in my prayers. and her family.hugs

Tonia, I am so sorry for your loss, and for the family that she left behind. I will pray that those children will be well taken care of, and that the family can remember the good parts of her life, and not the horrible pain she must have been in to take such a drastic step. At least she will no longer be in pain.

How sad to lose a friend like that, especially someone with 3 small children. I think only time will ease the pain. My thoughts are with you. Hugs~Debbie

I am so sorry. How sad for everyone envolved, especially the children.

I`am so sorry for you and those poor children.
I just don`t think people who do things lik that are in their right mind. How could they be?
Look what they have done to those kids. How very very sad.
Again, I`am so very sorry for you and those kids.

Love,
Rosanne

My firend of 13 years did this. It is so hard!