I have now been in this hospital for just under a week after having a little fall in the snow which resulted in my having to have a metal plate in my spine,at first it was juat a little fracture,until they opened me up!!turned out i have broken back! to cut a long story short i have been in hospital ever since!i am also trying to come to term,s that my husband of 23yrs has left me because he think,s i used my pain as an excuse not to have sex!,he ended up speaking to his whore for almost a year whilst being verbally abusive toward me! like a fool i didn,t realise what he was upto until it was too late,to cut a long story short yet again! not only am i in severe chronic pain daily due to my limited mobility in my arm as well as the pain from many surgerys since i have broken my back i am lierally climbing the wall,s in frustration with the pain,can anyone tell me doe,s it ease? and i have been told that all the crap i,m going through doesn,t help the pain,i have also been told my back will never recover which is obvious! as i have a pre exsisting back problem,right now i am having to walk with a brace on my back which is doing my head in!is there anyone out there who can give me any advice on way,s to help my pain? i have seen a osteopath i have had reflexology and many other different treatments including acupuncture etc, i also have blown several ten,s machines!! i also walk with a stick anyway as i can,t walk properly with a walking frame due to not being able to put too much weight on my left shoulder i,m kinda stuck i really would appreciate any advice right now cuz i,m going stir crazy being in here with itchy stitches!!
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