Hi everyone. Not a newbie here, but I've not been here in a long while. I am a member since 2008 or so. I want to re-connect with the people I knew on here before and would love to meet new people too.
A little about me:
42, female, divorced in 2010, no kids. Diagnosed in 2007, On disability since 2008.
My family isn't supportive, extremely toxic. I feel alone.
Daily life is tough living alone and not having family to rely on for anything, not even emotional support. In fact it's even more opposite. The only reason they call me is for ME to help THEM. Otherwise my mom and my brother are really mean to me, I've had to call the cops on my brother, file harassment charges. I don't talk to my mom. She is mean and manipulative, unfortunately, after so much time TRYING to have a relationship, its just impossible. She wants ALL or NOTHING. She is nice when she needs something and mean when I can't help her...
anyway I don't want to ramble on, My point is I'm lonely, I'm sad, I"m trying to cope with CFS, Fibro, PCOS, and other things too, without family support.
Hi my husband and I have been married almost a year. I am 45 and he is 58. We have been having horrible fights which started when my mom was dying 6 months ago. I felt like he wasn't supportive enough because I didn't feel listened to. In addition to that I don't feel important to him because he won't share his work calendar with me which makes it impossible to plan for appointments and...
We have been dating for 5 years, and been engaged since last December. We are getting married in August, but I need help...I don't feel like is happy...I have tried to talk to him about it, but he doesn't say much to the situation. He says he is happy, but it's the wa he is saying it.. Am I just over reacting? How do I go about to handle this situation. I don't want to enter a marriage with this...