This illness is horrible, no doubt about it. If you have suicidal feelings and are concerned you will do something about that then call 911 and make certain your children are safe.

We're here for you but we can't help with that. Please call 911 immediately.

Just hang in there jamie.We understand here as we have all gone through a lot of the same things you have been through.I am sorry your husband is being non supportavie at the moment but we care here. marilyn

I would love to help but nobody listens to me....
Some are getting better like I did and I do know how you feel I was sick for over 12 years.

You will have to forget most everything you have learned about CFS.

Send me mail if you want my help.
Good luck..
PS: Extra sleep helps..short term.
. Doug Clean.

don't listen to this dougclean, his advice is very very dirty. listen to your doctors and yourself. sounds like this dougclean has issues, lol. big big issues.

I dont think I would call this advice or not, but your husband sounds a bit angry, does he understand what your going through. has he taken the time to learn what you have and what the prognosis is? I think you should maybe try and get some counsiling, and your husband needs the most of it. You know what your going through, it sounds to me, he doesnt and doesnt care much. But this doesnt mean I am right by no means. if you need to talk, just get a message to me, I will be here for you. Pamela

Doug .... I think people listen to you and they read what you write. Because we ALL know there are MANY causes for CFIDS there is not a "one cure fits all" solution. Personally, I'm thrilled for you that you're 95% better ... but not sure where you get off saying no one listens. I think the protocol you followed is on your profile, right??? The fact that you let others know what was helpful to you is great. Saying "no one listens?" That signifies something going on with you. Not "us." I'm sorry if this sounds abrupt, but we're a misunderstood group by nature of our diagnosis. We don't need to hear it from within ourselves.

Dear friend, don't say you wish you were dead. You are feeling alone and desperate right now. Thank God I have a good supportive husband who understands what a mess I am. If my husband sounded like yours, I would feel the way you do right now. Maybe he just doesn't get it. Is there a way to help him? Counseling maybe? A good discussion with your doctor? I'm focusing on the relationship between you two because it sounds as though that's where the problem lies. There is no one cure fits all in this illness, but there are a lot of things we have in common. One of them is the great need to be believed and understood. Your husband has to reach this place so you don't feel so alone. You are in my thoughts and I will pray for you. I'm here if you need me. DarlaC

Been in your shoes darling a million times, got several illness including cfs, and i know that i feel hopeless all the time but we cant help the illness, but we try and make our husband's understand if yours doesn't understand or his not suportive then he has a problem, dont do anything stupid, if you were diagnosed with dfs then take your husband to see the doctor so that the doctor hopefuly can make your husband understand how dificult it is for you to function like normal, because dfs is anything but normal, i can only feel for you and tell you that am with you and if your husband cant understand you with the illness you got well then his the problem, do what you can my dear and, i tried many stupid things before and now with so many illness am still glad that am alive, read my profile if you wish, i have been through alot and still going through a lot but being in touch with friends at daily strenght it really has changed my life, it hasn't cured any of my illness but i feel more POSITIVE about myself which i never did before, i also have marriage problems we argue too, but you got to keep fighting for LIFE because LIFE is PRECIOUS, take care of yourself and your daughter at the best of your ability, dont over do it all my love, xxxxxx