Hello. I'm new here. I'm looking for some support, I don't know if this is the right place to ask for some support and advices. I have been married for almost 7 years and got saved 3 years ago. Before we got married, my husband raised from a Christian family, his dad's a retired pastor. He got off the path and got into drinking during our college years. But after we got married, I knew what I was getting from this marriage, all his drinking, I was hoping that one day he will decide to stop/quit drinking. I even encourage him thousand times to stop or I will leave. It's like a cycle that we go through million of times. Then I got saved, I understand more and became more closer to God and then realizing that getting a divorce isn't what God want. I'm not gonna bore you more but then a couple of months ago, he decided to sign up with Reformers Unanimous with our church's pastor. He drank twice after signed up with RU. I didn't tell you this before but he and I had a meeting with church deacons and the pastor. The pastor wants to help him getting through this. I felt like he lied to them and hurt me and my family by drinking twice after promised in front of the deacons and the pastor. I just don't know what to do now, I have not share this with my pastor because I have been telling my pastor many many times with his drinking that was before meeting with pastor and deacons. I feel like RU and meeting with pastor is worthless to him and nothing seem to work. Any suggestions please?? I have thought about leaving him and do "Tough Love" method with him, until he really prove himself that he can be trusted again and then more, I don't know.. Help please.. Thanks very much.
Kiwi35-mom with 4 girls.
Kiwi35-mom with 4 girls.
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