Children Of Divorced Parents Support Group

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What do you do?

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What do you do when you find out not only was your mother cheeting on your father but has been doing so for at least 6 years, not only that but now that the secrete is out, her true side is comming out. I love her but I don't, but I do. I asked her how she could lie to me and dad like that, she told me to grow up. Want to strangle her, and hug her. I dunno....
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I am not sure what to tell you. Mabye you should talk to her camly about it. If that doesn't work....I'm not sure. I wish I could be of more help.
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Your mom is going through something serious right now. I understand how you are mad at her and love her at the same time and you have every reason in the world to be mad, your not at fault. you are your mothers child and yes she cheated on your dad but she also cheated on you because you are her blood and she may not love your dad anymore, but she should always love you. Give her time or just talk to her. Im not saying things will get better Im just saying try. and good luck
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hug her
like you want to
its healing
people dont cheat because they dont love
they cheat because they do love... a lot...

hard to explain..
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