okay well i postedawhile ago that i gotfull custody out of the blueue to neglect and my 3 children speaking out to guardian at litum and then going to court on video to the judge. My ex is a control demon and his head has now come off. He is fighting everyone!!! He hates the guardian at litum and call her "my lawyer" We go back to court in july for the case. My children 10,14(girls) and son 18 are in counseling. My ex of course blames me for all this. He filed for a emergency hearing because july was too long the judge denied it. My topic that i wouldlike feed back on is: Iat 36 met a man who introduced me to something i should have never tried! I was a stay at home mom and in 3 months lost everything I called my mom and said i need help(now remember 3 months only and only on the weekends when i didnt have kids but it was enough for me to say i need help. This was 5 years ago. I made a decesion to go away for a year to treatment and my ex had them. My mom helped alot. Well for the next 2 years after my treatment i became the director of the drug treatment program. It was not easy for me to get my visits with my children back it was a longggg process that today I am glad i went thru. Well for 3 years my mother encouraged me to stay and just visit on weekends with kids well any mother know life is not ever right with out your children you might as well rip your heart out. Finally a year and half ago i came back to richmond with no help from my mom and started having my kids everyday under complete control of exhusband. When i saw he wasnt coming home at night I went to court and withinn 2 months they were taken from him and giving full time to me! I have 4 years today actually of complete drug and alcohol free and doing great i am mgr at bedbathebeyond and at blockbuster(yes 2 jobs,3 kids,no support)ok my topic my mother has notbeen nice to me at all it feels like she is jealous i am back in the picture it hurts because i would be so happy if my grandkids were being taken care of again i know she liked being the rescuer like she has allmy life and my kids needing her but it still hurts she has actually befriended my ex even though sociel services condemmed his house he wasnt coming home at night for days and he was physical and abusive she seemed happy that she was the mom. It hurts but has anyone been through that thinks forlistening the kids are doing GREAT but it is alot of work repairing the damage.! God is good though!
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