My best friend pays his child support on time everytime but was a bit bothered bc of the way his marriage ended he said it always stung a little to write that check out to her. He has found a way around this. On every check he writes I love you Matty, Because Matty is the most important thing in my life, or some other heart felt message to his son on the memo line. He says it makes it clear in his heart and mind that his child support is an obligation to his son and not his ex. He doesn't care if his son ever sees the checks it is just about making it clear that his son is his priority and his child support is sent with love, not ill feelings every month. Yea for parents who do the right thing fro their kids!
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