It's me again. Things have turned for the worse. I mentioned in my last discussion about the situation with my step children the emotional abuse that they have to go through when they're with their mother and the constant lies about my husband and I. This Friday, we were suppose to pick the children up from their school. My husband has 50/50 custody and we went to the school to pick up the children, they weren't there. The school said the mother took them all out due to medical reasons. We looked all over for them, called hospitals, police, etc. The police had finally contacted us and said that she placed a temporary restraining order on my husband that will last until the middle of June, almost 2 months. We can't call, write, or anything. She put on their that we hit the children in the chest closed fist and left bruises and they took her word. NO investigation, No communication with us, NO proof, just allowed this to happen so now the children are left with a mother who don't want them but want more child support as she has told us before. She has coached the children to lie as well. They have told us about things that she has done and times that they had to lie and they tell us that they have more secrets. The children have never been abused by my husband and I as stated in my last discussion. I feel helpless. They have told us about the things that their mother has done to them and things that she has said about us. They say that she hates us, and she tells them that we don't love them,etc. I am so tired of this crazy person. She has stalked my husband and I literally, she has used his ss# and opened alot of accounts and we have proof, and most importantly she has abused the children. We have all of these documents to prove this, but in my county they favor women and regardless if she lies, they think she is right. We have photos, we even have messages that her and the children have left on our phones even though there shouldn't be any communication according to the restraining order. I am so depressed and hurt. Hurt for myself and for those helpless children. My husband is a mess without them and we've done everything. I sit in their rooms holding their pillows. I'm scared for them. She is trying to take the children from us and hurting them in the process. My husband and I grew up in rough neighborhoods with disfunctional families. We both have made a conscious effort to make sure that the children will never have to go through what we've been through. We kept our promise, matter of fact, when the children are with us they are soooo spoiled. We just want what's best for them. I'm only their stepmother so I don't have a say, but regardless of my title, I love them more then anything. They are my heart, they are my joy, they are
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