My stbx quite his job 1.5 months ago and in that time has been in detox twice and in that time he planned on suicide by cop and the police found cocaine used by him in our house and beer cans everywhere.(The kids and I don't live there any more). I left because of the drugs.(about $500/week he spent on drugs). We have a 3 year old and a 7 year old. I don't do drugs. I go to church every week, I work a steady good job with a government contracted company. My kids are my life. I don't understand the person my husband is. My husband thinks we are not really getting a divorce. We have been separated for 8 months, he won't get an attorney, he won't sign papers, He wont' let me sell the house, he won't pay me money but he thinks he still "loves" me and that we will be "one" again. We have our Custody hearing in 2 weeks I'm scared to death. I will be asking for full legal and physical custody with visitation supervised once a week for 2 hours(my stbx can't deal with teh kids longer than 2 hours at a time). ANY advise to prepare me for my custody hearing would be greatly appreciated!!!!!! (I'm so scared and I don't know what to expect...My kids are all I care about and a judge is about to decide their life for them...I don't like that!!)
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