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so heres the scoop.
I married a guy in sep 06, we just had a child a month ago.He has a child froma previous relationship.The mom ran off on him and took his child and didn't tell him, back in 05.
Now shes got this court order to go after back dated child support, and told the court he makes more than he actually does.So hes now in debt $11,000.Now the courts enforcing and have garnished all his income, took away his drivers licence, and income tax return and what really pisses me off is now they are going to take our childs tax benefit...
How fair is that??
To top it all theres a possibility its not even his kid.He tried to get ahold of her but shes nowhere to be found,only her mum who said "she'll settle out of court for $200 a month"..hes thinking about agreeing to sort this out.But how i see it, why should he pay for a child that might not even be his, but he doesn't want to do a paternity test, maybe cos hes scared of the truth..Though i don't think its fair to spend our money and take it away from our daughter, if he doesn't have to..Its really putting a strain on our relationship and we constantly argue, don't know what to do anymore...help!!!
help
I married a guy in sep 06, we just had a child a month ago.He has a child froma previous relationship.The mom ran off on him and took his child and didn't tell him, back in 05.
Now shes got this court order to go after back dated child support, and told the court he makes more than he actually does.So hes now in debt $11,000.Now the courts enforcing and have garnished all his income, took away his drivers licence, and income tax return and what really pisses me off is now they are going to take our childs tax benefit...
How fair is that??
To top it all theres a possibility its not even his kid.He tried to get ahold of her but shes nowhere to be found,only her mum who said "she'll settle out of court for $200 a month"..hes thinking about agreeing to sort this out.But how i see it, why should he pay for a child that might not even be his, but he doesn't want to do a paternity test, maybe cos hes scared of the truth..Though i don't think its fair to spend our money and take it away from our daughter, if he doesn't have to..Its really putting a strain on our relationship and we constantly argue, don't know what to do anymore...help!!!
help
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
There's a lot more to this that is unsaid.
Do you know the point of taking away a drivers license?