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so heres the scoop.
I married a guy in sep 06, we just had a child a month ago.He has a child froma previous relationship.The mom ran off on him and took his child and didn't tell him, back in 05.
Now shes got this court order to go after back dated child support, and told the court he makes more than he actually does.So hes now in debt $11,000.Now the courts enforcing and have garnished all his income, took away his drivers licence, and income tax return and what really pisses me off is now they are going to take our childs tax benefit...
How fair is that??
To top it all theres a possibility its not even his kid.He tried to get ahold of her but shes nowhere to be found,only her mum who said "she'll settle out of court for $200 a month"..hes thinking about agreeing to sort this out.But how i see it, why should he pay for a child that might not even be his, but he doesn't want to do a paternity test, maybe cos hes scared of the truth..Though i don't think its fair to spend our money and take it away from our daughter, if he doesn't have to..Its really putting a strain on our relationship and we constantly argue, don't know what to do anymore...help!!!
help
I married a guy in sep 06, we just had a child a month ago.He has a child froma previous relationship.The mom ran off on him and took his child and didn't tell him, back in 05.
Now shes got this court order to go after back dated child support, and told the court he makes more than he actually does.So hes now in debt $11,000.Now the courts enforcing and have garnished all his income, took away his drivers licence, and income tax return and what really pisses me off is now they are going to take our childs tax benefit...
How fair is that??
To top it all theres a possibility its not even his kid.He tried to get ahold of her but shes nowhere to be found,only her mum who said "she'll settle out of court for $200 a month"..hes thinking about agreeing to sort this out.But how i see it, why should he pay for a child that might not even be his, but he doesn't want to do a paternity test, maybe cos hes scared of the truth..Though i don't think its fair to spend our money and take it away from our daughter, if he doesn't have to..Its really putting a strain on our relationship and we constantly argue, don't know what to do anymore...help!!!
help
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
There's a lot more to this that is unsaid.
Do you know the point of taking away a drivers license?