Ok, my husband of 8 years kicked myself and the kids out June 19th of last year because he met a girl on the internet and moved her in. Since then he has come and gone randomly out and in of all of our lives. No support of any kind. I know he couldn't pass a drug test to save his life also! He has kept saying this entire time that he feels he "wants to TRY" to work things out. I finally saw an attorney last Monday. This attorney said not to even bother for soul custody because in Ohio that's nearly impossible! He will almost surely get shared parenting with me! What a joke! I can ask the courts to have him randomly drug tested so that if Chapin gets hurt in his care this will show neglect and child endangerment! So my little boy has to get hurt BEFORE the courts will step in. Even if he doesn't get hurt physically my ex negelects him for the computer. The computer, and the chat, and the games are his life. My attorney tried to say that I would be the residental parent. She said all that shared parenting means is that all big decisions would be made together! Like where I CAN or CAN'T live. I'll be out of school in about 9 months and if my work pays me more and takes me out of town I can't go without his permission! I feel like I should just stay married and live like this. He doesn't come around and has no legal say so in our lives. I also feel and so does his family that he will never divorce me. He has no ambition to do it because it will take so much precious time away from his computer. HELP! I can't give this man shared parenting I want to move on with my life too.
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