I recently wrote getting advice about my stepson who is being abused by his step father. Well the mother has started to leave him alone with his stepfather again and my DH has visitation this weekend. Well BM works 3-12 on Friday and Sunday and I told my DH that he will be telling BM that he will not be dropping DS off to SF on sunday. Well DH tells me that he will call the social worker and get her opinion on whether he should drop DS off to SF. I already know that the SW will not give any info to DH and that he needs to see a lawyer and I told him this and I also told him that as his BF he has the obligation to protect his DS. I was told that I was being immature and that I need to stay out of it. So with that little bit of history I told my DH that if he drops DS of with SF (his abuser!) then I am packing up our children and leaving him. I am leaving the house this weekend while my SS is here because it will kill me if he comes to me telling me what his SF did to him wed. and thurs. and all I can say is I am sorry it's out of my hands cuz your dad won't do anything about it. I just want to bawl b/c my SS is like a son to me b/c I have been there for him since he before he was 2. I am scared he is going to end up in the hospital and everyday I am frightened when my phone rings. I just lost my newborn daughter in Oct. 08 and I can't bear to lose another child. I would end up in the nut house. yes it is going to kill me when I get a divorce b/c it will be like I am divorcing my SS also but I don't know how else to make DH understand the risk he is putting DS in or the control he is giving BM and SF. his SF already thinks he has more say than DH on custody and raising SS. What do I do and can I use this incident against DH in divorce court to get custody of my own children?
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