My husband is abusive and has abused me for years I have been afraid to leave him becuase he has threatened to take our son. I have been working with a domestic violence program for over a year because the police weren't helpful they told me i would have to leave the home. He also has abused my 8 yearold who is not his son. On top of all this his mother lives in the home and has severe dementia and is very violent and abusive to me and both our children. I have a protection order against my husband that gives me sole parental rights and responsibility. We went to our first conference and the judge gave him visitation 1 night a week under the stipulation that his mother NOT HAVE any contact with the child STBX says she isn't there on friday and saturday nights. My son is coming home telling me she is every weekend he even told the police this and told them that Daddy told him to lie to mommy and say grammy wasn't there. The cops told me that they weren't going to believe a child over an adult and wouldn't do anything about it and my husband is going out with his new live in girlfriend (we have only been seperated 2 months and she was there on my sons first visit and everytime since) they go to the bar and come home drunk and my 3 year old tells me that daddy puts him in bed with his girlfriend when she is naked. He has also told our son that his new girlfriend is his new mommy and that I'm not going to be his new mommy anymore. My baby is freaking out and dosen't want to leave my side he is haveing nightmares and behvior problems and when I called about family therapy i was told that i can't get him into it without my husbands permission because I haven't been granted custody. When I talk to my lawyer who is pro bono and i can't afford a new one she says things like well the judge is going to give him somekind of visatation and it isn't going to be supervised.
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