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my child has to go to his fathers every second weekend and half holidays per custordy order from court. My x is using this to make my life hell, he does not care about the child at all, he has told me on many occasions this and makes it quite clear with his behavior. He has threatened me, my friends and my family. he refused to return the child and kept him for a extra week then got to keep him for another week beceause it was his holiday time which i dont understand. Nobody would help me get my son back even though we have orders stating the child live with me and what he did was wrong. My son is becoming an emotional wreak because of all this and now refuses to be away from me from fear i will not return. He becomes really frantic when he has to go to his fathers house begging me not to let him go telling me he will not be naughty and his sorry just please let him stay with me. This is really heartbreaking and when he does return he is often violent, trys to suffocate our dog and has behavurol problems rally bad. I want to take this back to court but am worried that his father may get more time with him which will break me sons heart, as his father is a compolsive liar and made alot of accusations against me last time at court (which all got proven not to be true). Is there anything i can do?
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If you can get professional documented evidence that you son is suffering because of hte visits with his dad then you would have more to go on in court. Recording is also a good idea.
Your husband is using the child to control you.
AND as long as you have an court order the law HAS to obey it!
I had something happen like that but didn't have the court order in my hand as of yet. But now that we do have the court order it will not be pulled again.
Your x husband is probably saying things to while your child is with him making the child fear he won't ever see you again.
But yes video tape etc... but remember the therpist will be there for you and the child.