When I had custody of my little girl, I couldn't have anyone of the opposite sex move in as a roomate and had to sell the house if I got remarried. There wasn't any clauses in there for him about the same thing. Now he's moved his girlfriend in along with her three kids. He gripes about the child support that we agreed on and due to me getting help with bipolarism I feel he may try to use it against me. I have seen her for 9 days this summer and had to go get her all the way from Houston to Dallas on Friday. Then all hell broke loose and my current husband who will eventually very soon be yet another ex for domestic violence, and he came and got her on Sunday night. He works for American Airlines and you'd think that it would be easy for all parties to just hop on a plane. I am in the process of having a protection order filed for him but it won't be until the middle of August. He's asked for more money due to the unexpected trips he's had to make. I even sent a check before the holiday that he hasn't received yet. I would really like for her to come live with me, but the stipulations are that she is to live in the county she was born in or contingent counties. I just purchased a house in Houston with a teacher grant and have 2 years left to live in it before I can sell it. When I do...maybe I could go back up there...but then my 13 year old will be in high school and hate me for moving away from all her friends. I think he is always going to be a manipulator and the less I communicated the better. I guess I could enforce all the visitation issues by taking him back to court but then all this other stuff will come back to haunt me I am sure....what do you think>
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