Child Support & Custody Support Group
This community is dedicated to those involved in child support and custody cases. There are a myriad of challenges involved in any case and this is a safe place to talk about what you're going through with others who may be going through the same. Join the group and seek advice, find or provide a listening ear, or just share your feelings in this support group.
After 18 years of not recieving money from child support My ex owed me $202.000 dallors and it included back pay and I could not be meen to him and collect because he is apparently getting sick from so much alcohol and stupidities he has done in his past, so I decided that as a gift to him for christmas I would drop all Child Support and back pay because when I face God I want to have a clean Heart and a Good Spirit and collecting Child Support is so hard on him and hard on me. I cannot tolerate the stress of having my Children feel I am hurting there Father.. So sometimes we need to stop and realize if we are just collecting to get back at that person or do we really need it, I do need it but my children are all over eighteen and so why should I bother him at all.. He has his life and I have mine and all I want is for him to be Happy and my children to be Happy. I think that has been accomplished!! I have my Peace of mind now and even though Some of you may feel I did wrong, I did right in my mind..
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
One of my best friends was owed $90,000 in support and when her youngest turned 18 she finally filed to collect it all. And then her kids actually asked her to withdraw her petition and she did it on their request, although she still struggles to make ends meet and her sons could have used the money as well in supporting their families.
So, it is a family decision and I am glad that you were able to find a solution that works for you and yours!
Although it wasn't money between my ex and I she did die young and I always told my children long before she died I didn't hate her for what she did just pitied her.