After 18 years of not recieving money from child support My ex owed me $202.000 dallors and it included back pay and I could not be meen to him and collect because he is apparently getting sick from so much alcohol and stupidities he has done in his past, so I decided that as a gift to him for christmas I would drop all Child Support and back pay because when I face God I want to have a clean Heart and a Good Spirit and collecting Child Support is so hard on him and hard on me. I cannot tolerate the stress of having my Children feel I am hurting there Father.. So sometimes we need to stop and realize if we are just collecting to get back at that person or do we really need it, I do need it but my children are all over eighteen and so why should I bother him at all.. He has his life and I have mine and all I want is for him to be Happy and my children to be Happy. I think that has been accomplished!! I have my Peace of mind now and even though Some of you may feel I did wrong, I did right in my mind..
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