I tried but I give up....I met this woman and we dated for 3 months... we got pregnant. We discussed all the options and she decided to go thru with it.... I was against it at first...But if she wanted to have our baby then I was going to be there all the way....Its been almost 2 years and we just dont get along I try but she is selfish and inconsiderate and we dont agree on what is best for our daughter....I feel torn between trying to learn how to be so giving that I can accept her for who she is but I dont think I love her....scratch that I dont love her...I just cant stand this woman any longer....I dont know what the best answer is anymore and I feel like an ass for fighting with her over sometimes the littlest things...I also feel guilty because she doesnt work as much as I do yet we have our daughter in full time day care....we agreed to split the cost of everything from the beginning but now I just about pay for everything ....she has a savings of over 20 k I dont have any savings and when a new bill comes and I ask her to pay it she says....I dont have any money.....bottom line if I leave I think Ill feel like Im abandoning my child even though I will NEVER do that ...I know this post seems all over the place....Im tired and feel alone....any input would help...thanks...
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