im melissa and i have 3 kids. 2 of them i had problem with their father. well it all started when i was 19 and moved out of my mothers house i had been living with there father since i was 15( i had a job and was paying all the bills ) and then he kicked the kids an i out of a house i was paying the bills for because his name was on the lease. well any way i was moving out of my mothers house because i saved enough money to move out i was only there for like 3 months but i couldnt stand being there any longer. so i was moving out and nathon came over and said hey why dont you swicth the medicad cards to my address so they wont get lost we were on medacaid because my job didnt have insurenic. like a stupid a** i did it then one day he took them for a vist and didnt bing them back told every one cps had takin them from me and got on welfare! well i call the cops and they said i couldnt get my kids back because there was no custody order so they had no legel right to get them back for me. so i had to go to court for them. before my court date to get them back the welfare office came after me for child support i told them i wouldnt give them or him any thing because he stold my kids. so they took me to court and made me sit there 9 months pregnant have contractions and them telling eather sign the papers or wait for the judge for 4 hours and have him tell you the same thing so i relactenly signed. after that i went to court and wanted only joint custody so neather of us had to pay support and we could have equle time with our children. BIG mistake he took them again and moved and didnt tell me i thot well now i got an order of when we are suppose to have them so i called the cops and they said that they could not do any thing because we had joint custody so i would have to go to court and file a complant to get them back gosh why i already went to court. so i found out he moved to newaygo and i had to drive back an forth 2 hours to get them. so it was going good because he stayed in one place for more then a month so i could go and get them when i wanted. then in dec 05 he dicide he was going to go to la and need me to sign some paper saying he could take them out of state away from all they know and love. i told him hell no he tried to talk me into it but i stuck to my no and on dec 2 he left state with out them. so i thot every thing was fine abd he called them all the time i hated them not being able to see him any more.he came back for a vist in fed of 06 and of course i let them see him thats there daddy they love him. what a mistake that was.i told him they had to be in school so i called the school to see if they were there and the werent so i called him and chewed him out and he said that he wasnt bringing them back. the school called me and asked if i was moveing because a man they never met before came in asked for the records because they wouldnt be coming back to school there. i fliped. i called him and told him he wasnt takeing my booys any where. i called the cops again and they told me the only way they could get them back was if i had full custody of them. so i went down and got my self a lawer the next day. she was so nice and got me an emergency custody order that day so then i had to find out where he was he was at his moms house and have a cop serve him the papers so we made sure his truck was there it was but we had to go wait for a cop that didnt show up for 45 min and by the time we went back he was gone! well i kept calling him and he wouldnt answer so i called the cops in my city and they were awsome he called nathon served him over the phne and told him to bring the boys back or he'd be arrasted nathon swore at him told him no and hung up on him. so the offirce told us he said he was at his moms house so we went back there with to state troopers and they woke his parents up and asked where he was his parents said he had already left the state and had a flat on the side of the road. then they called him and told him that if he didnt get them back here by 8 am they would hunt him down and arrast me and he'd go to prison for 15 years for kiddnapping.so i sat by my phone waiting aand they called me to ask if they could get so pictures of the kids so they could give them to every police office from here to la. then finly they called back told me his parents went down to get them and theyed be back by 8am thank god! they had police waiting for him at his house in la to make sure he gave them back. well he came back july of 06 to try to get them back from me and the juge said no way. so now i have custody and he calls them every day and i let him have them when he comes back because he knows if he takes them that he will automadicly get sent to prison for 15 years. he's suppose to pay child support but he dosent. well thats my story sorry so long.
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