I went yesterday to take my kids to my parents house and my mom gave me some info that she admitted she isnt sure its true or not but that she wanted to give me a heads up. This weekend was supposed to be my boys dads weekend. My oldest son had a dr appt on Wed and we was told that he probably has Tourettes on top of having ADHD so he was given a new med for it. The dr didn't want him taking it until the weekend because he wants him to take it during the day but it might make him sleepy and so if he only wants to sleep then I will have to start giving it to him at night. When I talked to my ex about it all of a sudden he said that he cant take the boys this weekend because his new wife is badly sick and got the flu. She was the one who had answered the call earlier that morning when I tried getting ahold of the ex husband first and she told me that i would have to call him back after 4:30pm. I said ok. Well he called me back and thats when he told me that she was sick with the flu but she sure didnt sound sick when I talked to her that morning. It was fustrating because it seemed like he didnt want the responsibility to watch the oldest son to see if he falls asleep, or has any new tics. My parents said they would love to have the boys for this weekend. We drove them down there and I went over the medicine with my mom. She told me that her dad had called her here while back when we had snow out of the blue and he told her that her brothers widow was complaining that my ex husband was texting her all the time. He got a new phone just so that he could text her. It fustrates me because here while back he called me up sayiing that she had said something about me that had him upset and I dont even talk to her. My moms dad, & mom disowned me and I havent talked to them or Her in over a year so they dont know whats going on in my life. That woman slept with my uncles dad, little sister & her husband, His oldest brother and who knows who else. My mom and dad is the only one that she didn't get with and I found out that she liked my ex husband. Thats none of my concern, She can have him, well actually thats between her, him, and my ex's new wife. I just dont want them talking about me. I just dont know what to do. My mom said that she dont have any actuall proof just what Her dad had told her but she was still concernd for me. I just want to live my life with my bf, and 2 boys. We have a wonderful life and we encourage the ex to be in the boys life but sometimes he has excuses. Is there anything that I can do to protect myself from the possible communication or do I just have to see what happens? Sorry this is so long but this week has been just one shock after another.
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