My ex called and put his mother on the phone, she asked me to write a letter stating I forgive him of his past childsupport (18,000!!) on his promise or should I say word that he will continue to pay his present due childsupport. It bothers me for many reasons, one being he has never ever kept his word on anything, ever. Secondly, if I do this for him I feel he will stop paying for another 7 years and just want me to write another letter and he will have never taken any responsibility for our son! He does nothing for our boy, nothing. He lives in another state but I let him have half summers as well as phone calls whenever. (which he has made me regret simply because he will call all hours of the night for no reason) He is disrespectful to me and my family because he feels he can. My husband wants me to write the letter, stating everyone deserves a second chance...but really, does he deserve one? Would you do this for your ex? Remember, he pays nothing towards medical or anything, this is his second month of actually paying his childsupport, second month in 9 years! Ugh, I hate this.
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