Ok well i took my step son in 5 years ago because his mother was living in a crack house with him. Since then she has had a child taken by social services, and another child which she now has but the father of this child keeps beating her up and always leaving her. My step son is like my oun son, i love him soo much. And my family has taken him in as well (Her family is not involved in his life) I took on full compleate responsibility for him. I have been the one that has dealt with all the Dr's ( he was born at 1 pd, 10 oz ) So every week i have a number of people we see to try and help him. She was off doing her oun thing for 4 years while i raised her son. HE does call me mom, and now she is starting to come back in his life. She freaks that he calls me mom, but i feel his has full right to call me mom. I think he is lucky to have 2 moms. But if he sees her she tels him he does not have to listen to me or my mom. HE told my mom , well i don't have to listen to you because your not my mom's real mom. She tells him he can go live with her, and when he does come home now is out of sorts for like 2 weeks. I call her a Disney land mom, she lets him do everything he wants. There favorite thing to do is listen to the rapper 50 Cent, In my mind that is not something for a 6 year old. Anyways i don;t know how to handle this sittuation and handle the crap she is filling his head with. And even now she only phones like once every 2 months, In my mind she has no right to be saying these things to him. All it is doing is hurting him, how do i get her to see this
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