hello my name is heather and i have some questions for anyone who can help. let me tell you a little about the situation. i lost my father in january of this year and have been going thru a hard time. my ex came and took my children in april i have raised them both since they were born. they are 4 and 6 and my ex came to get them one weekend a month if that sometimes. he was able to come take them because we have never done custody before and his parents live right down the street from where my house used to be and they started a bunch of crap trying to say that my boyfriend was beating my kids (and he wasn't) and so he had no problem driving down here from raleigh to take them. we went to court and was going to do an agreement because i have been through alot this year and he never signed the agreement and i am still only alowed to get my kids on saturdays from 1 to 4 because i haven't had the money to take it back to court. he makes about 2000 to 3000 dollars a month and i make a lousy 550 a month and now he is trying to get me for child support i have been trying my best to get a lawyer so i could take my kids back because he doesn't need them. already since he has had them his new girlfriend who just turned 18 in july (he is 29) he had let her put make-up on my 4 year old little boy along with her bathing suit while stuffing the bra with socks and his comment to me was that my son wanted it on. he has left my kids with his parents numerous times once for 3 weeks and other times for like a week at a time. both of my boys want nothing more than to come home but i am in a hard spot because in july of this year someone mysteriously blew my house up and i'm being told they might not ever find out who done it but i'm about 99.9% sure my ex did it. i have medical issues and also just found out a week in a half ago that i am pregnant again so things have gotten even crazier. if anyone has any clue of anything i can do i would love some advice. thanks.
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