PLEASE HELP! It is early in the morning and I am stressed out. My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years. He has 3 children all under the age of 15. I have never tried to replace the mother or take away from her. My husband and the childrens mother has 50/50 custody. That was an ugly fight. The childrens mother intentionally quit her job so that she could receive more child support. I know this for sure because she said it. She has also said that we could have the children if we paid her the same amount in child support. She has been living with a man for 1 1/2 years who is 30 years older then her and he has a great job. We have recently learned that she has been meeting with the 3 children and telling them aweful lies about my husband and I. Let me include this, one of the children is six years old. She has lied on us many times before and as a result the judge had awarded my husband 50/50 custody. Well it is definitely getting out of hand. I am so scared. I'm scared for the children and I'm scared for my husband and I. In the past, this woman has stalked us, cut her own tires and said we did it, told the children that we don't love them, and have made many threats. We have tried to get a restraining order and was told that we need more evidence against her. My husbands oldest son was extremely quiet last week and we asked him what was wrong and he said his mother said some extremely aweful things about us and he don't want to live with us any more. If any one is out there, can you give me some advice. I love these children with all of my heart and soul. I'm 27 years old and I want to be mature about this situation, but what more can I do? I'm struggling. I don't have children of my own and I take care of them as if they are my own. They already have a mother, but she has expressed to us that she don't want them. She only want them because she knows how much we love them. The children think that she can't do any wrong and we haven't told them anything bad about there mother. We just want peace. I'm stressed
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