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Hello to all. Well it looks like we might be going to court over custody. It is all pointless. She wants to be the custodial parent. Fine with me. But she wants me to have the kids every other weekend with a wensday dinner during the school year and every weakend only in the summer time. That doesnt seem like joint custody to me. We have worked out everything uncontested. This is the only thing screwing it up.
We both know that the parenting plan is only a guideline and will be upheld only under disagreement in the future and we both agree the kids can see anyone of us any time they want. But what if she turns witch on me and we have to use the guidelines? I only see my kids 6 days a month with a dinner vist. No way.
If this goes to court then a stranger who does not know myself my wife or my kids will be making decisions for us. please any advice?
We both know that the parenting plan is only a guideline and will be upheld only under disagreement in the future and we both agree the kids can see anyone of us any time they want. But what if she turns witch on me and we have to use the guidelines? I only see my kids 6 days a month with a dinner vist. No way.
If this goes to court then a stranger who does not know myself my wife or my kids will be making decisions for us. please any advice?
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What schedule would work best for you?
Why couldn't you see them two nights a week and every other weekend, and see liberal visitation?
If you all got to court...........the kids will be dragged into it.........and can you see a mediator?
My STBX has liberal visitation, and even though he has continously abused and now followd separation agreement, will talk to Judge on this during final divorce process, and might get visitation changed then.
he thinks I'm being agreeable, but really am not......biding my time.
Just be careful you do not lose any groundwork you already have.
would you have..look at definations of custody arrangement...Who has Legal custoday