My ex was suppose to be taking the kids for the weekend tonight.. well, he waited until the last minute to decide he needs groceries, and has to wait until tomorrow to take them for the night. Once again leaving me to clean up his mess... letting the kids know he isnt going to take them tonight. What do I say to them? How can I keep explaining all this without putting him down in front of them? I am so tired of cleaning up his messes with the kids, and still making sure they love him just as much as they did before. Putting on a happy face for the sake of their relationship with their father. And, why is it always left up to me to explain why HE isnt around?
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