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Child support suspended HOW LONG?

deleted_user
deleted_user
My ex wife moved away from our son and left him with the step father never notified me or the courts . She got caught by the County and they suspened support unless she disagrees and goes to family court. Well she moved back to her husband in a hurry and wants to go to court to get her money. Our son is 17 and there is only 6 months of support left. What do you think ?
deleted_user
deleted_user
What do you think?
deleted_user
deleted_user
are you sure it is only six months? if it is, pay it if you are made to, and thank god it is only six months. JMO.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree...Pay it...doesnt matter the circumstances...if it is court ordered..you, my friend will go to jail if you dont pay so just grin and bear it and be glad that you are almost done...ANNNNDDDD love your kid!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks for your replies I have no problem inthe world paying it Ive done so for 12 years living a modest life while my ex spends all the money on fancy sports cars and a 400 thousand dollar home 8 cars etc,,, My older son is real close to me but my younger son is out there riding the wave with the ex because I do not have all the fancy cars and huge house. child support fraud is serious and just thinking of her collecting my finacial support for our son while she left him behind burns my candle at both ends. Its up to the judge now most likely she won't be able to recieve it anymore and I can provide to my son myself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Jeff are you thinking she purchased a $400,000 home and a sports car with the child support you paid over 12 years? Assuming the car cost $50,000 you have been paying $3,125 a month.
Buck it up man, you paid for your kids.
She does not have to live an austere life to warrant you paying.
You got one good kid out of the deal, count your blessings plus you ended the relationship by doing the right thing.
treetree
treetree
you paying is doing the right thing. Your money, no matter how much you pay. the kids are taken care whether it be the actual money that ypu gave her for them or it was her money and she replaced hers with yours. I t's the same thing
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