Hi everyone I am new at this so bear with me please. My case is the following one I was married to my ex-wife for 8 years and together as a couple for 10, I partially raised her 3 sons and of course my daughter. I am an active duty service member and as the army goes I have to go where they send me to but she didn't like the idea of been away from NYC and always gave me excuses for not moving where I was station so I got tired and threw in the towel. Well now that I got married again to someone else I guess that is killing my ex-wife cuz she has done everything she can to harm me, I have always supported my daughter and still do because she is all that matters to me, I am currently deployed to Iraq and I haven't been able to talk to my daughter since September 2008 because her mom doesn't let her talk to me. My daughter was staying with me and my wife from May 08 until Sep 08 right before my wife send her back to NYC to her mom, we opened her a prepaid credit card with my bank, every 2 weeks I was transferring her $100 for her to get whatever she needed besides that I was buying her clothes and other things she needed. Well in her bank statement all I saw was transactions for buying train and bus fares and never saw a transaction that I could tell it was my daughter using the credit card and me knowing that her school is only 5 minutes walking distance I know it wasn't my daughter buying those Metro cards, so I suspended the card and opened her a savings account where I keep depositing the $100 every 2 weeks. Well now my ex-wife decided to take me to court for child support and she already lied to the court by saying that we were never married, and that I don't support my daughter since 2007, I called the court house and told the clerk that I can't be there for the hearing cuz I am deployed something my ex also didn't tell them, so the clerk told me to write a letter to the judge asking him to adjourn the case until I get back from deployment. I have a copy of my marriage certificate with my ex and also all sort of paper work proving that we were married for 8 years, my question is wouldn't she get in trouble for lying like that to the court, I also pay for my child health care and I also buy her savings bond. Has anyone here been thru something similar to this and if so what was the outcome.
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