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my boyfriend has been around my kids for a year and a half my oldest is only two i know he can adopt him because his father not on the birth certifacate or even knows he a dad ( i tried telling him but he ingored me) my second son the one i worryied about he will be one on the 21 of this month my boyfriend been around since i was pregnant he was there when i gave birth he takes care of both the boys they both call him dad and his parent grandma and gramdpa my second son dad a total asshole he makes 15 dollras an hour and throws it in my face he only pay 50 dollars for child support somehow and i dont even see that cause i need state assists cause i cant afford it on my own anyways he also drinks alot and party alot oh and he like to sleep with girls who are 13 to 16 he got busted once but her parents didnt press charges he dates girls that age cause at least he tells me cause they more mature then girls his own age (he will be 22 on apirl 18)his an idiot anyways my son is just a show off thing to him the only time he wants him is when a bunch of girls come over and he only times he buys anything for him is when i throw it in his face that my boyfriend buys his daiper his clothes medicine everything (my money go to bills and getting the car fixed cause my car brakes down once a week)my boyfriend and me take turn waking up in the middle of night my son still doent sleep all night my son also has breathing problem and it my boyfriend who gives him his nebulerizer basically my boyfriend loves and cares more for this child then his own father does or acts my thing is someday we want to get marriedeven more soo cause we expecting a little girl in feb. but i want my kids all to have the same last nameand i plan on giving my daughter my boyfriend last name because it would mean alot to them and honestly i love my inlaws more then my own family.and when i get married i plan on changing my last nameso i want to change both my boys last name to his too but is this possible
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Dckmom who is listed on the birth cert? If its "unknown" or something I'm sure your boyfriend can petition to have himself put on the birth certificate.
I.e. he lies and says he's the bio father.
Frankly I'd let things alone if I were him.
It would be much easier to petition for a formal name change rather than an adoption anyway.