OK..soooo my stbx says that since he pays me child support.. more than what he acutally owes me.. that i should buy all the care products and everything else my son needs. In doing that he doen'st have to buy anything and if he does ie; such as sunscreen and tempra today, now he says i owe him $30 dollars because i should have bought that stuff. And he wont even buy him bath wash or anything i have to put it in the baby's over night bag. And laundry detergent..!! so he can wash his cloths there. Like i mean just because he's giving me a bit more than he's suppose to.. does that mean he doen'st have to buy him anything.. ??? And if he does I owe him now!! How do i maintain boundaries because I definately live off the money he gives me.. its my groceries and diapers and basic necessities.. I get a check from assistance and that just covers my rent and phone bill nothing more. THis is a struggle for me is there any compromises??? WHy should i have to pay for everything ?? Because he gives me support money for the baby then is that my job to buy everything??Shouldn't he have his own supplies??
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