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bias family courts

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i am new here. someone suggested i join this community. first divorce courts are bias against men. they love to help women screw over they ex husbands. if any one needs proof i can show it to you. i have fought with the family courts in st.louis county, and the moissouri division of child suppport enforcement. i asked for a modification to lower my support so what did they do they f ing raised it. my ex wife sits on her ass and collects wefair,food stamps and they let her. they are f-cking me over and knowone care.

so i guess i will ask for help from this community if there is any help out there.
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There's also a single dad's community. I think there are people on both gender sides that get screwed. My ex has been hiding from c.s. and working under the table for years. So it goes both ways. I'm sorry for your hurt, I hope it gets better for you.
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Divorce is a lose, lose and lose again situation. You loose, your spouce looses and the kids loose...However, divorce should not be an easy thing...even if your divorced, if you have kids, you are "married for life". Divorce has many stages, they are the same stages that you feel when someone dies...anger, sadness, guilt, etc...eventually you will feel better and treat the whole mess like you would a business situation with some emotion thrown in there for good measure.

No one wins...just love your kids, thats all that you can do...dont make it worse for them...they didnt do anything wrong and they will love you no matter what...

Good luck...
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