My brother married this woman when she said she was pregnant 13 years ago, she was not pregnant at the time she said she lost it but he found out otherwise. They stayed married (BIG MISTAKE) 6 months later she got pregnant and had a boy, she wanted to go back to work so I helped them out by watching my nephew. My brother worked three jobs at the time, when she went back to work 3 months later she met a man had this affair never had a clue about she told my brother she wanted to live closer to work so they moved the man she was seeing lived in their building, didn't find this out till later. Anyway she told my brother one day that she was offered a job in New York (man is from there!) and she was going to go there to make some money so my brother wouldn't have to work 3 jobs and she would take my nephew 3 months and then she would leave him with my brother for three months he thought it would be fine she could get settled and then he would go out there, big mistake because my brother gave her permission to go out of state with his son even though she was still married to him and had no clue that was the begining of the end. She kept her deal about 3 months on and off so I became very attached to my nephew during the 3 months about 9 months into it she asked my brother for a divorce. When she was in New York she wouldn't tell him where she was so that was very suspicous. While they where getting divorced her new boyfriend was in the picture, she moved back to La with him and then decided to live in San Francisco so that started a big huge court thing with Custody, My brother got him twice a month and had to fly there to see him most of the time she would say he was sick when it was my brothers turn then he would call the police and demand to see him he wasn't really sick she played games big time. I got to see him once a month I flew to San Francisco to spend time with him I made him a collage of our family and took it to him she went bolistic said he doesn't need to see our family, he begged me for a picture of my brother but I was afraid she would never let me see him again so I told him no. That was the last time I saw him he was five. She was remarried by then with another child, I wasn't allowed to take him out of the house. He was crying when I left and thats the last I remember him now he is 13. She has contacted my brother and wants her husband to adopt him but I am hoping my brother won't be that stupid she won't even let my parents contact him. My brother wanted to talk to him and she wouldn't let him he just thinks its better that he lives a normal life until he is 18 and then he will get in touch with him, I think it is wrong, I miss him a lot. Has anyone gone through this???? The last time she talked to my brother the first thing she told him was that her son doesn't even remember who I am! What a dig!By the way since he lived out of state before she was able to move to New York without my brothers permission he lives there now. She has also changed his first name. and uses her husbands last name for him not legally. Do we have right to see our nephews or nieces?
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