My mother says my dad was supposed to be paying her for the three of us: child support and alimony. He says it was just child support. My sister moved out a couple years ago and I just moved out this past Jan. When I moved out he stopped paying her and my sister and gave all the money to me. He should have kept paying my sister till May when she graduated, even I know that because he told me many times that he was supposed to pay her money till she finished her first degree. What I do not agree with though is him having to pay my mother for the rest if his life. She's actually taking him back to court. It was supposed to be in June but they only had an hour scheduled so they got it postponed because her lawyer wanted more time. Now they haven't even gotten a chance to settle things in court and maintainance enforcement is going after him for "her" money. It doesn't make sense, if they're going to court you'd think maintainance enforcement would wait to see what happens but they're not. He told the woman he talked to to shove it and that even if they send him to jail they'll be paying cause they'll have to pay for him, me and my mother. He won't stop talking about going to jail and he really scares me sometimes. I swear that if he ends up going to jail I'll be going with him because I'll kill her. I can't take much more of this, I'm so lost. They divorced like 16 years ago when I was like 3 and now I'm just about 19. It never ends and I'm getting utterly sick of it. I don't know what to do anymore. Help!
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