Because the only comfort my entire life was give to me by myself, I am very strong. I am unable to reach out to others for support or comfort - and have learned in my 47 years to give myself excellent advice and comfort. Therefore, I am able to do the same to others. And I find that the only people I have in my life are really needy and suck the life out of me. But not wanting to hurt others (as I have been hurt) I continue to allow others to drain my precious resources. Does anybody relate and have any advice?
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