my husband is in the army and he has been to iraq three times. he is currently there now. we have been married 11 years and has 2 children and lost 2. this depl,oyment is so different , he been there a year now and he will return in july. here just last week he has been acting so strange, its like he jus decided to sit down and think of everything thats rong in the marriage or should i say rong with me. he said that he so unhappy and he never felt this way before and he didnt wanna hurt me or the kids. i said whats wrong , is it me and he said no its him, then i ask wat could it possibly be, and ur deployed, he said maybe we should seperate then he called back and said he was so sorry and he love me . i talked wit other women in the unit and they said since the death of one of their soldiers a lot of the guys are very closed off. but i feel that its more than that. he has a cell and i call it and on the weekends he wont answer it a lot. like tonit i called it and i no somebodi picked it up and then it was turned off. i feel that he is sleeping with someone. i just dont no wat to do cause hes never treated me this way.
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